From Death To Destiny BeLoved Miracles Kathleen Skaggs Because Service Is Key
Imagine Waking Up To Fear Everyday.
Fear Of Not Knowing Who You Are, Fear Of Not Knowing Where You Are Every Single Day. Today’s guest keeps a loaded crossbow with her to face this fear.
Welcome to this next episode of The BeLoved Miracles Couples Project!
Today we are reaching from Norway to Jacksonville, Florida, USA. Kathleen Skaggs just planned her funeral and now she is needing to find funding to pay for it. She found surveys…not so good…
Then she found a video that changed her life…
So Kathleen where does your story begin?
0:23 Kathleen just planned her FUNERAL, this is how she asked me to ________________ her. She is now needing to find ______________ to pay for it.
0:51 Day after Thanksgiving 2013 SHE HAD BEEN ON HER DEATH-BED for a couple of years, she had just ___________ ______ .
1:01 She went ONLINE to do her ______________ because she was not going to be a burden upon her family.
1:43 Then a CHANGE OCCURRED, she found _____________ to give her a purpose, it gave her a reason, it restored her ability to dream.
2:03 A ______________ which INSPIRES PEOPLE to build self-esteem, motivation, while it inspires! So life can be the way you want it to be.
2:41 To Kathleen, AN EXCUSE is giving yourself ______________ to quit or fail. She wants no part of it.
3:41 You cannot COMPARE your _________ with somebody else’s, because you don’t know what they have gone through.
5:49 Kathleen GOES TO BED AT NIGHT like the rest of us. Then _________ up the next morning not knowing who she is, how to get up. It’s as if she was 6 months old, she doesn’t have a clue.
6:07 She has a _________ ON HER PHONE of 200-300 things that get her up out of bed dressed, fed etc. etc. that most people don’t even think about doing each day. Kathleen has to be told to do it.
7:41 For Kathleen to be READY TO START HER DAY and _____________ takes 4 to 6 hours each day. Her family and others know not to approach her until about 2pm each day.
8:07 She keeps a LOADED CROSSBOW in her ____________ , because if she is frightened, she is a pretty good shot. She shoots for the eyes and doesn’t miss. Even loved ones do not approach her until she is not scared.
9:13 YOUR STRUGGLE is for _________ . Keep in mind, you will always find a way, or help from someone, that will help you through it, always.
9:37 DON’T __________ _________________ up, you don’t need it. You need to be your best friend, not your worst enemy. Because you are all you have!
10:01 TOMORROW NEVER COMES. The next _________ appears, where is tomorrow? It’s no longer there.
10:31 When Kathleen WAKES UP it’s like… So she doesn’t go to bed until like 5am and she is up to start it all again no later than 11am.
11:09 MOST PEOPLE CAN’T _______________ on less than 6 hours of sleep. Kathleen “chooses” to. Because choice is everything, there is no excuse in her book, none. There is no excuse with what she has lived through.
11:57 She CANNOT FEEL FROM HER WAIST DOWN. Still she ____________ to get out of her wheelchair. She “chose” to walk.
12:07 Kathleen CHOSE to _________ 280 pounds in 2.5 years. She “chose” to change her heart, her thought processes and where she plans on going.
12:23 NOTHING CAN STOP YOU when you ____________ to do what you want. Enjoy it, life is a blast! It’s amazing! 🙂
12:39 EVERY NEW DAY is just that, a brand new _________ . Filled with adventure and excitement, there is no depression there.
12:51 THERE IS NOTHING TO BE ___________ FOR. As Kathleen says, “Shoot I don’t even remember it!”
13:09 Getting _____________ about SOMETHING THAT SOMEONE HAS DONE is a choice, and the next morning she doesn’t remember it so, “Who cares? It’s gone, there isn’t anything for anyone to be overly concerned about.”
13:25 MOVE ON, the day goes _____ , life goes _____ , don’t stay stuck. It’s not needed, and you are only doing it to yourself.
14:05 Kathleen WOULD NOT CHANGE a single ____________ in her life. If she could go back she wouldn’t change anything because it has made her who she is today.
14:27 Today she can __________ . Finding the ones that NEED SERVICE. “Service is the key,” she says. The more she serves others, the more she has to be able to serve.
14:53 GRATITUDE IS A MUST! Be ______________ for what you have. Everyday Kathleen gets up is a good day!
15:15 There is not time in her day to WALLY IN SELF PITY, who wants a __________ __________ for one?
15:45 IMAGINE laying in a bed and being unable to ____________ from the waste down because you can’t feel. Emphasis upon “can’t”, it was overwhelming, it was depressing, it was… “I am ready to give up.”
16:07 The VIDEO that Kathleen came across was about another person’s _______________ . It was so INSPIRING that Kathleen had to ask herself, “Why can’t I do that?” She realised that she could!!!
16:41 She DOESN’T SPEAK OF DYING ANYMORE, she is simply not doing it. She refuses.
21:05 Be FAIR, fight fair, _____________ fair. To get past the high divorce rate between couples.
22:25 Your ____________ is the KEY WORD. We all ____________ our feelings, emotions, thoughts and the road that we travel.
22:54 _________________ is another key ingredient combined with the GRATITUDE.
23:43 Kathleen’s MESSAGE TO YOU is…
As Kathleen says, “The Choice Is Yours!”
Because F.E.A.R. Has Two Meanings:
“Forget Everything And Run” Or “Face Everything And Rise”
Which do you choose?
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