New Zealand Lawyer Overcomes Her Professional and Parenting Pain
BeLoved Miracles couples are the unsung hero’s.
Often we hear stories of rolling the dice of love. Hearts expecting to win while the odds often leave the minds of each suffering the consequences. Not here.
Below the surface of simply entertainment in major motion pictures, dramatic books and all the other fifty shades of grey, there are roots connecting us all. Here our mission is recognising the role of a couple as being fundamental to the fabric of our society.
Successes of these heroes are literally why each of us are here. In the larger story of our own lives we will find the victory couple to be our own parents. And the cycle continues success upon success, next generation after next generation.
These “Together Or Not At All” stories inspire and demonstrate examples of overcoming against all odds. Implementing creativity to win one’s freedom. Applying a system to rise above the bloody battle of competition personally and professionally. Couples opening a shared heart, and spreading combined wings of belief to be lifted free. Physically free, mentally free, emotionally free, financially free.
Morgan Paige Steele and her husband, parents of two beautiful twin girls, are such a BeLoved Miracles couple. Implementing a system to inspire generations to follow them honestly answering the call of freedom, from within.
Going within, so as not to go without…
Here are a few highlights of this inspiring interview:
1:30 A 15-year-old into PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT is always looking for?
3:35 What happened at 26, SIX MONTHS PREGNANT with twins sitting at her office desk?
5:06 The TURNING POINT QUESTION Morgan asked and answered to overcome her professional pain.
5:53 What is the FEELING she was so grateful that she had a chance to feel?
7:11 Morgan was CRAVING WHAT in a single word?
8:16 What drove her to think “THIS IS MY TIME?”
10:50 Why is it important you START THE THIN EDGE OF THE WEDGE today?
14:55 How does Morgan define being a MODERN DAY STAY-AT-HOME MOM?
17:20 Starting TODAY can help you avoid ______________ tomorrow as a couple.
18:13 Why ignorance is no longer bliss when we are SELF AWARE.
20:13 Go after YOUR DREAMS!
21:52 Why if you don’t GO WITHIN, you go without
Seeds of BeLoved Miracles and “Together, Or Not At All” have taken root and are growing strong in this rich online environment for an ever expanding number of couples. In this very moment with you too!
Because you are read this now, I am able to share with you not just Morgan Paige Steele’s story, also the rich and varied stories of a growing number of other couples and their very own BeLoved Miracles.
Courageous blogging system pioneers who create for themselves working from home as part of the modern day online internet business lifestyle.
Do you have the shared courage to express yourselves and live the life of your dreams like Morgan, her husband and family?
What is keeping you both from achieving the success that you deserve?
I would love to hear from you in the comments below…
You Can Listen To The Audio Here:
FULL INTERVIEW TRANSCRIPT:
Timothy – Hello Morgan from Norway to New Zealand right? Very good to connect with you!
Morgan – Hello Tim, thank you so much for having me on, it’s awesome!
Timothy – yeah it’s a lot of fun isn’t it to implement these systems that can tie us together from around the world. So today anyone listening you’re welcome to listen in to the story about mom of twins. Creating her own independent business for time and physical freedom. She was an attorney for three years prior to starting online. Her passion is spirituality, mindset work and learning.
So Morgan where does the story begin for you?
0:47 Morgan – that’s a great introduction you summed it up pretty well. The story, where does it begin? I think if I’m completely honest it begins when I’m about 15. So about 15 years ago. Which sounds crazy because these systems were talking about weren’t even around then. What I am referring to that started when I was 15 is my personal growth. If you enter personal development and your into it at a young age, you are always searching for something. You are always looking for something, something to kind of help you achieve those things that you’ve listened to with audios and read about in books. So for me I was 15 and I started reading all these crazy books. That probably other 15-year-olds didn’t read. I was a weird kid, who also did all the other normal things that kids do. I was reading Louise Hay and Tony Robbins all that kind of stuff back when I was 15. Uncovered the secret and got more into the law of attraction. And then got more into Abraham Hicks. I consider myself kind of an expert on that stuff now. Being immersed in it for 15 or so years. And I think it’s a progressive thing for me, bringing me to where I started online at age 26.
2:25 It’s just a natural progression where you have more of an open mind because you’ve been learning that stuff for so long. And you take on opportunities that perhaps other people would say no to. So I went to university when I was 18. And I did a law degree so I was at university for five years and I thought that was going to be my way to be successful. If you know what I mean, because I’ve always kind of wanted to be successful. So I thought that this would be a great way for me to get up in the world. And that’s all I’ve ever known because my parents were not entrepreneurs. I wasn’t really surrounded by any business people, my mom is a lawyer as well, so it was just kind of the track that you go down. I enjoyed University and I love learning so I just did the degree. And then I got to work and it was like,”Okay, So this is what I do.” (Laughing)
3:27 I did enjoy it because I’m an optimist and I make the best of things, and I’d trained my mind to think this was awesome. And then I was probably about three years into my career. And I got pregnant. I was about six months pregnant, and I was sitting at my desk in my office. And I was having twins so my stomach was absolutely huge. I’ve never had any kids before so I didn’t know what it was like to be pregnant. I am not a very good pregnant person and I didn’t like it. I love my kids now but it was awful. So sitting at my desk, my stomach was so huge, I was nauseous all the time. We were at a point, my husband and my marriage so that we didn’t have enough money for me to leave my job too early. I knew that I could only leave for a certain amount of time because we had a mortgage. And I had to be there, like it was that sinking feeling. And I have never had that before. I have always had options, and I have always had choices. So I always just decided whatever I want to do and I’ve done it.
So this was the first time in my life where I was sitting at my desk, not wanting to be there. Just hating, hating, hating it. And thinking I just can’t leave until I’m eight months pregnant. Two months wages lost and then we are going to have the babies. My husband earned less money back then. It was just awful, And it was at that point that I said to myself. If I don’t want to do this now when I don’t have kids, how the hell am I supposed to do it when I have kids?
5:13 How am I supposed to come back to a job that I’m not very passionate about. I don’t know what it’s going to be like when I have these children. How am I supposed to come back, with this just awful, awful feeling? What am I going to do? At that point I realized that so many people in the world feel like this way on a daily basis. So many people are just shoved into a corner. At some point in their life they had choices, and it just gets worse and worse and worse and then they find themselves without a choice. And that’s where I was. I didn’t have a choice to leave.
5:53 I am so grateful that I had gotten to experience that feeling, because I had never had it before. And that experience taught me that I would never ever want to have no freedom again. I never want to have that feeling where I don’t have a choice and I feel so awful. Feeling physically stuck and trapped. Where I cannot choose what I want to do. I never want to have that feeling again.
6:19 That’s when I decided that I had to do this. And I had already dabbled somewhat online. I had kind of had a look at the stuff and I was really sold on it. I just hadn’t sold myself that it was my only option.
6:42 Timothy – So during this phase of your life you had already been introduced to this system?
Morgan – Yeah, just a couple months before I had gotten pregnant I had uncovered this online world. Where it’s like people were just free. Some of them weren’t earning much money, but some of them were. The ones that we’re just kind of earning enough to pay their bills and go to the beach all day. That was good! (laughing) And these people they just looked so happy. Full of the freedom that I was craving. And I think for me it was escaping the pain. That was one of my driving forces to really getting into this. Escaping the pain of having that feeling again.
I am kind of an analytical person in away, And I could already see what was going to happen in our lives. If we had our girls, which we do now, and then I would go back to work in about a year. Then I would be trapped in the rat race. Because you get your salary and then you get your pay raise and it just continues on. Kids go to day care, which is fine. My kids go to daycare now, I’m not against day care. What I’m saying is that you get caught in the rat race, Then you decide to buy a bigger house. Then you decide to buy a bigger car, And a bigger boat. It’s just a rat race, as your income goes up. And then you’re just constantly trapped, And you can’t escape with freedom. You can’t get that freedom back because you’re too much in debt. You’re too much used to your lifestyle. And I thought to myself I’m 26 I don’t have all that commitment. This is my time.
8:18 You know this is my time to really just try to do it, or wait until I’m a lot older.
Timothy – Was your husband supportive of this?
Morgan – Yeah he was, he’s been really supportive this entire time. Which I think has really helped me. He doesn’t judge me for what I’m doing. And he knows what I’m doing. He doesn’t do it himself because he works with his passion in the sporting industry. He loves that. I do think having your partner onboard is a huge thing. It’s really difficult, I’ve seen people on my team struggle with this. If your partner is not on board you’re always doubting yourself. Because you already have the doubt sometimes whether this is going to work, And now you’ve got someone else doubting you as well. It’s just too much doubt, it doesn’t work. So to have the beauty of having the couple together is a really beautiful thing. It’s amazing.
9:27 Timothy – And then everything changes. You remind me of when I became a papa in these later stages of life. It was a major transformation. So how does that fit in. Did you actually engage this system before becoming a mom? Or did you do the mom, birthing and making sure the house and home are in order. Then it started up, or did they overlap?
Morgan – They definitely overlapped. I worked frantically while I was pregnant. I also remember getting up at 4 AM when the girls were four months old. And I just stayed up. Even as a mom with twins I just stayed up from 4 AM till seven. Learning whatever I was trying to learn because you get to that stage where it does become your passion. And it’s almost like because you are so caught up in the baby world it can almost drive you mad. So to have something else to have your mind on. Especially for someone like me who likes to learn and do things like that. It’s a real blessing having something to distract yourself.
10:36 My advice for people out there who either don’t have children or do is don’t wait. It doesn’t matter if you’ve got 10 minutes a day or half an hour a day, one hour a day or six hours a day. It doesn’t matter how difficult you’ve got it right now. You need to start the thin end of the wedge today or tomorrow because you don’t know when you’re going to need it. Or when you are going to have more time. You can learn something every single day and it just gets you that one step closer. It doesn’t happen overnight so you need to start.
11:07 Timothy – And listening to what you shared so far of your story. It’s like start claiming your freedom. Start claiming the ability to live a lifestyle business approach. Rather than the business dictating your lifestyle?
11:22 Morgan – Yea, one thing I think is huge is I believe in spiritual growth, that we are all spiritual beings having a human experience. That’s sort of what I believe. And we are all here to grow, advance, evolve and things like that. So if you are trapped in something like a job that you don’t enjoy. And all your time is used up every single day doing activities that you perhaps have to do. You really limit your ability to grow as a spiritual being. Because perhaps A – you don’t have time. You don’t have time to meditate. You don’t have time to read. You don’t have time to surround yourself with positive people. You don’t have time to just have that timeout for yourself.
12:05 But when you decide to build something like this, and you give yourself the time and you start to make it work. You can spend two hours a day reading because you don’t have to be anywhere. You can meditate. You can do yoga. You can do the things you need to do to be the person that you need to become. To achieve what you need to achieve. With too much going on it’s just harder to happen. It’s much harder.
12:40 Timothy – So the growth curve of self-awareness is unrestricted.
Morgan – Yea, you have time to grow as a person and the more you grow the more successful you can become. The more sane you are. The more balanced you are. The more that you can give love to others. Going back to couples you know within your relationship I think all the time because my kids go to preschool most days and my husband is at work, so I am just at home. Sort of doing whatever I want. Which is awesome! 🙂
13:16 If I was at my job eight to 5:30 and I dropped kids off and pick them up. And I had to come home and do dinner, washing and everything. And he does the same, and he goes to work all day. How much more stressed would our life be?
As it is, I usually knock off at three and make dinner. Prepare dinner, get the house ready and go to get the kids at 3:30 or 4 o’clock. And he comes home and it’s all relaxed, and it’s calm. It’s just really quite cool as opposed to having everything just rushed. I come home a better person. He’s a better person because I’m not having a go at him. For wanting to go to the gym after work. I don’t mind because everything is organized, and just things like that.
13:57 Timothy – Fantastic, Wow, So this is a whole new way of defining a stay-at-home mom. It sounds like you have created a dream come true in many ways.
Morgan – You know I did the stay-at-home thing for quite a while having the kids all day. While I tried to do this. It drove me mad having my two kids all day long. I want to be at home and I want to do the things that satisfy me as well. Being around my kids does satisfy me in small amounts during the day. Because I really am a working person. As a lawyer I love to be productive and things like that. So just to stay home and bake cookies doesn’t really get me going.
14:43 My kids are two and half now so they love going to the Kindy and they play with their friends. They go about 25 hours a week so that is the time that I have to do the work on my business or go to yoga and go do the things that I like. So I guess it is more of a modern-day stay-at-home mom. I am staying at home but my kids also go and do things that they enjoy and it’s the best of both worlds. Because I can be here not too late in the day for them. Like if you get home at six at night it’s bath and bed. Where as I get to be home at 4 o’clock so we spend some time together. It’s not rushed. It’s not stressed. I’m not as stressed as probably some other mothers who have to work.
15:22 And that’s my decision to have that balance between having my kids and doing my stuff. And I know other people might want to have their kids more. And that’s great too. So this is just what I need and how I do things.
15:43 Timothy – What other advice would you possibly offer to couples who are choosing to build something together?
Morgan – My first piece of advice would be to start today. Start as soon as possible. Because there is a learning curve. Firstly there is the learning curve with the technology. Then you have to turn into the person who is going to deserve to get those results and that success. For some people it’s easy. For other people it’s a bit more difficult. It depends on how you have lived your life up to this point. What your belief systems are. How much personal development and growth you have done prior to starting a business online. If you have not done much of that then you are going to have to do more of the work in that area.
16:34 Success is totally an inside job, inside out. You need to spend a lot more time working on yourself then you do on your business. You hear that all the time. It sounds like a cliché saying but it’s not. It’s so important. For other couples out there I would say. You need to have somebody working to be able to fund some of the business. For the other person to be able to work on the business and then share and have certain roles that you do within the business. The main thing is just understand and realize that if you don’t do something like this you have a lot more obstacles I think in the future.
17:20 As your kids grow up, with the stress of the relationship, financial troubles, time freedom. All those things are such a reality for so many families it’s unbelievable what people go through. It’s just unbelievable. You can’t convey that enough. For me the pain of having to live that life is just ridiculous. Now that I have reprogrammed my mind to think that what I am doing is the best way ever. I can’t understand how people can be happy any other way. And they are happy, because that’s all they know. They don’t understand true peace and perhaps what you can actually achieve if you just try something new.
18:13 Timothy – Well said, ignorance is no longer bliss once we are aware. Self aware and aware of a system that allows us choices that I have not found any other way. It sounds like you have identified that likewise and you have stepped into it and you are implementing it. It sounds like it’s working for you, for your girls, for your husband, your marriage and your family as well.
18:41 Morgan – Yea, absolutely. If you were thinking of starting an online business as well. I would not hesitate, I would find the right system for you and obviously we have such a system. It is been around for five or six years. Thousands of people are implementing the system. That is just a vehicle to give you everything you need in one place to start your online business. Instead of being that stressed out online business person who is buying 1000 different things you just need to go to one place. Have everything in one place, a business in a box if you like.
19:20 You just start and just follow the success of people who have come before you. You just get it going because there are a lot of cogs in the wheel that you need to learn. If you have got a community like we have and if you have all your tools in one place it makes it a lot easier. A lot easier.
19:36 Timothy – For anyone who would like to reach out to you Morgan how would you say suggest they do that?
19:40 Morgan – You could just contact me on Facebook if you like at my personal profile Morgan Paige Steele. Yeah I love chatting with people, Facebook chatting. Friend me. I have a group, Online Legions Mastermind that people can join that I give daily tips to. Webinars, Facebook Livestreams and things like that. Yeah reach out to me on Facebook if you’re right for the group we can add you in there.
20:13 Apart from that just basically go after your dreams! That is the thing I want to convey today. You are only here a certain amount of time and if you see people and you like what they’re doing and you see that they’re living their dreams as well, there is nothing that is stopping anybody from achieving anything.
20:33 I am doing this course at the moment, a lady called Marisa Peer, you may have heard of her. She is a hypnotherapist and a mind set coach. The stuff that she teaches is just amazing. Your entire mind can be rewired to achieve what you want. So just decide what you want. Then you just do certain things to your mind. Certain things which I can’t explain right now. It just re-wires your mind for success so your subconscious mind can drive your success. So once you understand that your mind is like a computer, you realise it is the most powerful thing that we own. That we need to look after and nourish it. Treat it right. Once you kind of get that than the world is your oyster. Because you do search out more knowledge, more books and more successful people that you can follow.
21:41 Timothy – You said it earlier and I wrote it down that success is an inside job. I hear that this is in that category. I have said for a long time something that makes a lot of sense for me. If I don’t go within, I go without.
21:52 Morgan – Yes, that’s a good one! If I don’t go within I go without.
Timothy – Right, it just rings, every time I say that to myself it’s a good reminder for me. To start there. Start within. I often think of us human beings as like a seed. And what we really seem to need is the right environment. Within the right environment we have a chance for what is within us to sprout out. Reaching for whatever inspiration that we are called to and today Morgan I am just thrilled to share this little snippet. It’s such a deep rich story and yet there is enough here I believe to inspire anyone who has a chance to plug into this. Thank you so much for sharing your story!
22:37 Morgan – My pleasure.
Timothy – Alright, we’ll be in touch. I would love to touch in with you again over the next few months and see how this is growing and developing. And I hope you will further share the story as it continues from there in New Zealand.
22:54 Morgan – Ok, thank you so much for having me on I really enjoyed myself. And enjoyed our conversations before we went live too.
23:00 Timothy – It has been a pleasure and I look forward to staying in touch with you. Here at BeLoved Miracles I’ll sign off with a reminder to myself and anyone else who is listening. Morgan has once again added to it in the sharing of her story this idea that together, Implementing a system, together we truly can overcome. With that I’ll say goodbye from Norway!
Morgan – Bye-bye from New Zealand! See you later!